I don't think there's even that much difference. I try to think think "What would make me a good person" I don't deny the subjectivity of personal morality, which you and I probably define the same. I however believe that there is an objective moral standard, so I just take an additional step. So I ask the first question and follow it up with "How does this compare with an objective moral standard". Your moral standard for comparison might even extend to your societal morality.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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