(September 20, 2016 at 3:53 pm)Brian37 Wrote:(September 20, 2016 at 1:47 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I'm not saying a bad marriage, even if it stays intact, isn't also a loss of love and thus isn't also just as tragic. But I can't comment on that since we hardly ever know when loss of love happens until/unless there is a divorce.
I see nothing wrong with divorce. I think it is horrible to have unreasonable expectations to stay in loveless marriage. I've seen plenty of bitterness an even affairs and using children as pawns. The adult thing to do is part with no animosity
I think loss of love in a marriage is always tragic, regardless of whether it leads to divorce or not. Divorce is simply the result of that.
That's all I meant by my comment.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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