(September 27, 2016 at 5:00 pm)Emjay Wrote: Yeah, it's funny that paulpablo... the less communication there is, the more people can misread you or have delusions about you. It's like in a Mafia game... if you lurk - read or kudos but don't post - people can create all sorts of hypotheses about you and have little or nothing to contradict their confirmation bias. So communication keeps things real and on the level whereas lack of communication lets people retreat into their imagination and see what they want or expect to see.
Very very true.