(October 7, 2016 at 3:22 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote:(October 7, 2016 at 3:20 pm)RobertE Wrote: No problem EP. I'll be totally honest, I didn't find it "mutually consensual" or "hot", since I never grew up in a violent environment. I don't fancy walking to the shops with a black eye, do you? In fact, I was pretty close to giving her name to the authorities and she would have had the children taken away immediately because she didn't have a leg to stand on.
I wasn't talking about your case. I was just saying, in some relationships, that stuff is OK and consensual.
I would be ok with getting a black eye from my girlfriend, given the right circumstances and set up. It's all about what both people like and the atmosphere. It can be playful.
When it's not playful however, it's just wrong. I agree. And people should be locked up for it.
All I'm saying is, that's not always the case.
Of course. I agree with the entirety of your post. With me, I feel I cannot do anything like that because it is simply negative, but each to their own I guess.
