Perhaps it has something to do with the thread being about gender, which, at least in my case, brings sex to mind.
I am all for equality, but I am more for individual happiness. Some families find that the ship runs better if one person handles the home like a business while the other makes money. I confess that sometimes I imagine that is how marriages should be. I think that is only because I have dated wildly inefficient men when it comes to housework and have found myself in the position of working full-time and managing all household matters. If it is going to be equal, it has to be equal.
I am all for equality, but I am more for individual happiness. Some families find that the ship runs better if one person handles the home like a business while the other makes money. I confess that sometimes I imagine that is how marriages should be. I think that is only because I have dated wildly inefficient men when it comes to housework and have found myself in the position of working full-time and managing all household matters. If it is going to be equal, it has to be equal.