Venting here.

[Little Rik]

If you would have read some of the NDEs experiences you would know why some people have an NDE
experience and other do not.
The reason is very very simple.
God knows who can make good use of the experience and who does not so what is the point in giving
such an experience to someone that will not make good use of that experience?
Beside many people are not interested in God so why God should be interested in them?  

There are however exceptions to the rule.
Some strong atheists after an NDE experience all of a sudden become strong theists.
In this case God knew that deep inside there were room for God so God get manifested.

How do you know the criteria by which god chooses who does and does not have near death hallucinations? Did god tell you this personally? Do you hear voices in your head?

That is why I suggest you to read some of the NDEs experiences.
In this way you would understand how the system works from the very people who experience God.

http://www.nderf.org/NDERF/NDE_Archives/...counts.htm

Also, according to Christians god IS interested in all of us because he loves all of us and will do everything he can (without influencing our free will of course) to show us his love... right?

Correct and wrong at the same time.
Correct because everything is inside his mind so he can not possibly hate anyone.
He would hate himself which is not possible.
At the same time to be interested in all of us does not means that he should give gifts to those who do not deserve YET.
Suppose you are a teacher.
Some of your student deserve to go ahead.
Some other do not deserve that.
Would you pass those who do not deserve?

You see, in this case love has absolutely nothing to do with pass them.
You would wish that everybody pass and get over with all your heart but you can not do that AS YET.

Capish?