God exists subjectively?

[Whateverist]

This is why I always want to separate the belief that a god exists from the independent existence of an actual god. I have no doubt the former exist as real (subjectively) for at least some believers. To tell them that it doesn't would be counterfactual - for god as a subjective entity. Might just as well tell someone the love they feel for their mate is just in their head. So what? Where else should it be? If xtians could just let the big, bad, omni god out there go and embrace a personal god it sure would make communication easier on both sides.