Anyone identify with being feminine? How about masculine?

[Edwardo Piet]

Men seeking release of their sexual tension with women I tend to consider effeminate (think about it)  and men seeking release with men as inherently more masculine.

I've thought about it. A lot. And I definitely disagree very strongly, for me personally. But this is all just all a difference in personal perspective

There's nothing more masculine, to me, than a masculine guy wanting to dom a subby femme woman, opposites attract and all that jazz. Although really I don't think sex or gender identity is what it's about. The masculine doms the feminine... regardless of their biological sex or their gender identity being male or female, is how I see it. I think we can separate sexuality/sexual orientation, biological sex and gender-identity all from masculinity/femininity. Whether someone is born biologically male or female, and whether they're gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual or Japanese, in my experience dominance and masculinity tend to go hand in hand and submissiveness and femininity tend to go hand in hand. Although it's still just a tendency, certainly not necessarily the case.

But each to their own