What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?

[J a c k]

In the past, if I suspected there was genuine interest on a fella's part, I would move things along by engaging in conversation; and perhaps do a bit of flirting.

"Oh, I love your shoes. Are those leather?" OR...
"Tell me everything you know about small engines. And start from the beginning."

You know, that sort of thang.

Nice post, Thena.  Your post reminds me of two female co-workers who behaved in a manner similar to what you posted: I assumed they were being nice and professional to me, and I never would've guessed that they were interested if it hadn't of been for another female co-worker/friend of mine pointing it out to me; she even set me up on a date with one of them.

Hence, regarding female flirtation, I'm quite the dullard.

I'm like that with men. I don't get it. Even when they flirt I think it's just goofing around. They have to be super direct, or I won't understand. Like, "Ok, Ivy. Obviously you don't get it. I've been flirting with you. That's what it was. Flirting. I did that, because I like you. Not like a buddy, but like a girl." Then I'd still be confused, but suddenly open my eyes widely and say, "Ooooooooooh. Now it all makes sense."

Lol Well... not exactly like that, but to that effect.