(May 21, 2017 at 8:11 pm)Shai Hulud Wrote: CIJS - Dude, it's an honor to be Best Man in your wedding in July, but if I weren't feeling compelled by a need to not be an asshole, I'd bail on you. Let's do a little review, okay? You made me give an opinion on the 800+ items on your wedding registries, individually, and that was enough to make me start pondering the decision. Then you had me fly across the country to suit shop, which I honestly couldn't afford either at the time. When you and bride-to-be made me help you choose which of your hundreds of engagement photos were going to be used for the Save the Date cards, that was annoying too. Then when you texted the other day saying that your mom essentially called me a liar, because none of the shirts she saw while doing the shirt shopping are the size I gave you, that pissed me off too, but since you asked me to get re-measured, I went to the nearest men's store this morning, having to wait until it opened rather than go into work on my day off as planned, and I got re-measured for you, only for you to essentially claim I had to be lying, because my arm measurements weren't the same as when we got suit fitted. I feel incredibly guilty for being angry at you right now, but you know what, if you bother texting again tonight, I may not answer.
Edit: CJIS - Dude, calling me and sounding petulant doesn't help. Nor does giving me options like "buy a collar extender and the shirt my mom is holding for us" vs. "We can send you a photo of the shirt and the composition for the texture and what it's made out of and then YOU can find one".
I mean no offense, but are you sure this is a dude???
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
