Indeed, it doesn't mean the same thing to all people. Intention is very important when it comes to what is acceptable to me or not. If you use a racial slur to tell me a joke that is just clever, and I know you're not actually a racist, I don't care. If you scream racial slurs at someone because they cut you off in traffic, I'm pissed.
Using the pissing on the grave analogy, someone else might be horribly offended by it. However, there's a musician whose fans go out of their way to piss on his grave because it's what he would have wanted. They do it out of love.
Using the pissing on the grave analogy, someone else might be horribly offended by it. However, there's a musician whose fans go out of their way to piss on his grave because it's what he would have wanted. They do it out of love.
