RE: [Update 1] of (So, I complimented this girl today...)
September 2, 2017 at 1:15 pm
(This post was last modified: September 2, 2017 at 1:29 pm by Brian37.)
Take a chill pill dude, sound's like you did fine. Again, what is most important isn't that she will or will not end up liking you, what is important is that YOU BE YOURSELF and the rest will take care of itself. You cant go into this assuming an outcome. It might work out but it might not. It is better not to be in a relationship than to be in a bad relationship.
Don't be dreamy eyed about it and don't let your hormones rule you. If she ends up liking you she will like you just the way you are. If she doesn't end up wanting to date you, move on. RELAX that is what you can do for yourself.
The one relationship I had that lasted, all be it only 6 years, was with my X Wife. Prior to her I had always pursued. When I first met her I found her attractive, but not in a "smoken hot" way. And I had no intent on dating her, I just thought it was great to have a new friend. I wasn't stressed out with her or worried what she thought of me. I simply acted like my goofy self like I did with my guy friends. It ended up that she kept seeking me out in the cafeteria over and over and two months later it hit me, SHE LIKED ME.
Relationships that progress rarely start like a Hollywood movie. And as I said before, most females and males go through far more rejection before they hit that one partner that ends up working out.
Don't stress yourself worrying about what she might think of you. Every time you see her just treat her like you would a mere friend, because right now all you have is casual conversation anyway. Don't rush. The quickest way to chase a lady away is to show too much attention too quickly.
Don't be dreamy eyed about it and don't let your hormones rule you. If she ends up liking you she will like you just the way you are. If she doesn't end up wanting to date you, move on. RELAX that is what you can do for yourself.
The one relationship I had that lasted, all be it only 6 years, was with my X Wife. Prior to her I had always pursued. When I first met her I found her attractive, but not in a "smoken hot" way. And I had no intent on dating her, I just thought it was great to have a new friend. I wasn't stressed out with her or worried what she thought of me. I simply acted like my goofy self like I did with my guy friends. It ended up that she kept seeking me out in the cafeteria over and over and two months later it hit me, SHE LIKED ME.
Relationships that progress rarely start like a Hollywood movie. And as I said before, most females and males go through far more rejection before they hit that one partner that ends up working out.
Don't stress yourself worrying about what she might think of you. Every time you see her just treat her like you would a mere friend, because right now all you have is casual conversation anyway. Don't rush. The quickest way to chase a lady away is to show too much attention too quickly.
