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[Update 1] of (So, I complimented this girl today...)
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RE: [Update 1] of (So, I complimented this girl today...)
(September 2, 2017 at 8:35 pm)bennyboy Wrote:
(September 2, 2017 at 1:05 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Girls aren't that complicated. If a guy i felt attracted to came up to me and asked me if I'd help him study, I'd say yes and of course be thrilled. I wouldn't have ignored it like she did. Men are pretty bad at taking a hint. Trust me, she's not interested. Sad

I like you, but that's bad advice.  Just because you're a woman doesn't mean you're an expert in women's feelings in general.

The rule is, if he's attracted to a girl, then he can approach her and keep testing the waters until it's crystal clear that he's not going to get anywhere.  I'd say a handshake and a smile is plenty to go on for first contact.  I also like that he used my method to talk to her.  That's one point for me! Big Grin

Also, don't discourage the boy.  All us old codgers are living vicariously through him-- if he gets laid, we ALL get laid.  Don't you dare virtual-cock-block us!

Meh, I don't need to be an expert. He asked her if she could help him study and she dodged the question.

He can keep trying if he wants, of course. The updates are fun.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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RE: [Update 1] of (So, I complimented this girl today...) - by Catholic_Lady - September 2, 2017 at 10:06 pm

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