(September 6, 2017 at 7:00 pm)spyrofannumber1 Wrote: Hey guys, I'm back. Thanks once again for all of the helpful replies, they've really helped me out.
But, I now would like your guys' advice on something I found out.
So, I had extra time today with nothing to do, so I was just thinking of something I could kill time with. I was just looking through the internet until it hit me. I should learn a little more about this girl before I do anything else. So I googled some of the places of where she said she was from. I then found a school which named all of the High School graduates and seen a name I thought was familiar: it was hers'. So I researched more until I found her middle name and plopped that in the search bar. I came across a facebook page to find her... and this other guy who looked way more grown up and had a full beard. Compared to this guy, I looked like I was born yesterday. I looked farther into the posts and confirmed it was her boyfriend. I didn't know whether to be excited, mad, or upset. The excitement would come from maybe being less nervous or complicated around her. So what I wanted to ask you guys is if I should still pursue her. More specifically if I should: quit, slow down, or keep on it.
Thank you guys once again, you've helped me quite a lot. I'll be eager to read your advice.
Here is an idea. Accept that she probably already has a relationship of the sort you're looking for. Probably nothing more will come of it. But, since you've already broken the ice, if any further interaction should come from her side, just enjoy the opportunity to interact with her without any of those should I/shouldn't I thoughts. Just let them go.
"Pursuing it further" is now off the table. To do more is to enter the realm of stalkerdom. You don't want to be that guy.
