Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[The Industrial Atheist]

Yeah, I want to work on getting a job so just maybe I can get a girlfriend. That's months or years down the line. I often feel worthless.

I might have to do volunteer work just so I can get work references. I worked for four months at Goodwill but didn't get hired in and since I didn't know anything then, I didn't know to get co workers info. That was years ago.

For many years I was too sick to work and my meds didn't do anything.

It might take a very big hearted woman to want me with or without a job. I don't think there are many people like that.

There are not many, but as someone else who often feels worthless, there are a few out there, you just have to keep going on with your life. Expecting to find someone is exactly when you won't find someone. In my experience, it's right when you're finally thinking "I can do with out, for however long it takes", that they come along. 

Sometimes luck does exist. Everyone is interesting and as good a partner to someone as anyone else is. You just gotta find the right person.

Thanks, Jelllo.