CL, I assure you that over the years I've had more than a couple revenge-type fantasies. I've occasionally gone so far as to semi-seriously work out the logistics. My struggle now is to keep things like that from occupying prime real estate in my brain so that I can use my mind for things that are actually beneficial to my well-being, rather than wasting time snarling at people who aren't in my life any more.
We may not be "good as we think we are," but IMO as long as we are capable of resisting our nastier impulses we are good enough.
We may not be "good as we think we are," but IMO as long as we are capable of resisting our nastier impulses we are good enough.