(November 16, 2017 at 3:45 pm)Whateverist Wrote: I wonder how much of this behavior taps into something about our animal nature. Regardless, it isn't right and shouldn't be tolerated.
Louis CK's SNL monologue bit on child molesters hit the nail on the head. There is no upside to wanting to jerkoff in front of women. Or wanting to touch everyone's tits. Or wanting to date 14yos. We have what we are through no fault of our own, and only a small portion of that is considered acceptable. It's a burden for the people saddled with the bullshit, and a burden for the people who end up being the recipients.
What's complicated, is that it doesn't get talked about. So instead, you have people being told their urges are something to be ashamed of and evil rather than dealing with it practically. And people hiding things and feeling ashamed usually ends up with some bad results.