It sounds like you have tried with your marriage and if you are still unhappy I say get divorced. We only live once so why waste it? I don't know yalls relationship but if you are best friends maybe the divorce will be civil and end up with y'all still able to talk. The other woman shouldn't play a part in your decision and just be a plus if it works out.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."
Also if your signature makes my scrolling mess up "you're tacky and I hate you."