You probably have a better grasp of the situation than anyone on a forum could since you have a first person perspective of all the complexities involved.
I would just say be careful because women can do that thing where they say it's ok you can do a particular thing, and tell you in a calm voice that it's fine. Then go completely crazy when you actually do that thing. Like it's just a test.
Also the problem I see with being just friends with exes or with a woman who is your wife in this instance, is that friends talk about what they have been doing, about their romantic relationships sometimes and in my case I'll talk about sex with my friends. If your wife becomes just your roommate/friend does this mean you could imagine a point where you're going for a romantic walk in the park with this other woman and you'll feel comfortable having an honest conversation with wife and telling her all about it.
I would just say be careful because women can do that thing where they say it's ok you can do a particular thing, and tell you in a calm voice that it's fine. Then go completely crazy when you actually do that thing. Like it's just a test.
Also the problem I see with being just friends with exes or with a woman who is your wife in this instance, is that friends talk about what they have been doing, about their romantic relationships sometimes and in my case I'll talk about sex with my friends. If your wife becomes just your roommate/friend does this mean you could imagine a point where you're going for a romantic walk in the park with this other woman and you'll feel comfortable having an honest conversation with wife and telling her all about it.
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
