(January 6, 2018 at 10:20 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:(January 6, 2018 at 9:56 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Thank you. I guess the thing is that if he had married someone else he wouldn't be going through this, because it's happening because of me. He deserves better than this.
Oh, stop blaming yourself. Ya know stress hormones can make things worse.
If you told him this I'll bet he'd kick your ass. (not literally, maybe just a good spanking)
...perhaps the way she likes it.
Which, incidentally leaves a LOT of latitude. If you are doing your best in your marriage, that's all that can be asked. I know where he is going shortly, and you have a right to be concerned. But maybe not in the way you expect. Please just be there for him. Based on what I've seen on-screen, he could do WAY worse. Chin up!
If you get to thinking you’re a person of some influence, try ordering somebody else’s dog around.
