What beliefs would we consider reasonable for a self proclaimed Christian to hold?

[Amarok]

The reason that NDEs do not bother many atheists, is because they know so little about them.

Nope it does not bother us . It's the fact monrons  try pushing it as evidence of mystic nonsense that's annoying . As it's not . 

 I would say that you are not even trying. 

There is nothing to try 

Have you ever been to an IANDS meeting?

The mental masterbation of a group of hacks and moons bats don't interest me 

How much have you studied NDEs?

Deluded mystic crackpots are always  push this nonsense and not a single case presented is conclusive . nor as a whole 

I accept all NDE stories that are legit.

Then aren't very bright 

I do understand that what people see in their own NDE is from their own perspective

Yeah delusion tend to be subjective . And the puzzle is more of them picking up their shattered reasoning skills .