You're not taking into account the complexity of sexual attraction and all the factors involved. Either way, sexual attraction is involuntary and not something that can be freely chosen one way or the other. Shaming someone for who they are or are not attracted to isn't right.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh