Social Problems

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I've noticed that the kids that run around their neighborhood and do what they want, are always the ones causing troubles. I've also noticed that rural kids tend to be good, but I don't necessarily live in a rural area, I'm just not aloud to run around on the streets and act like an idiot :p I just don't understand how people can deal with them, they spit out the window and think its hilarious. They constantly scream and yell at each other over stupid shit. They constantly cuss at our bus driver, I've had to tell them to show some respect, but it never works. One thing I have noticed is that kids think that "fighting" makes them the hardest person in the world, I just see it as kids that can't settle an argument properly. There is nothing that gets on my nerves more than kids, that constantly waste their time trying to prove something by fighting. It's one thing if the kid is picking on you for no reason, I have no respect for bullies, if anyone is getting picked on they will usually end up dealing with me. This kid I sit next to in social studies, for some odd reason people hate him, I don't really see why? But everyday this girl constantly calls him a "fat bitch, no one loves you" just because he looked back. Personally I'm getting sick of it, you'd think by highschool people would get past name calling, and grow the hell up. I'm pretty sure the girl thinks everybody agrees with her, but personally I can't stand her. She uses me as an example for what he should act like, because I'm "Quiet", big difference is if I was to say anything to her it would end up in an argument. I see no reason to pick on kids, just because they are different. If they are causing a problem, ask them nicely to stop. You don't disrespect people to get a point across, treat people how you want to be treated. It's that simple.

Those are the kind of people who are insecure about themself, so they find the need to pick on others.

I don't start fights. Unless someone is getting hurt, I won't really go out of my way to tell someone something. Name calling to me doesn't bother me at all. I know I'm the better person so really, calling me a name only boosts my self confidence.

But if someone else gets picked on and I can tell they are hurt by it, I will usually tell the person harrasing them to just chill out, and be mature, usually it works if you tell them calmly and in a respectful tone. Bullies thrive when they rally their victims and peers up. They want attention, they want to be fought back. If you calmly tell them to chill out, they usually get the message. If you fight back or call them names back, they usually will just retaliate harder.