What are the major qualities you like in a person and in what order?

[KevinM1]

Outside of the usual suspects - intelligence, integrity, compassion, competence, etc. - a lack a drama. I cannot stand people who don’t have their shit together and have surrounded themselves with idiots and assholes. People whose lives are largely one crisis after another largely due to the company they keep or an inability to learn from mistakes and make better choices.