(May 10, 2018 at 6:00 pm)Hammy Wrote:(May 10, 2018 at 5:58 pm)ignoramus Wrote: Hammy, you know the old rule ... Everything in moderation... Works for 99% of the people 99% of the time...
(May 10, 2018 at 2:48 pm)Hammy Wrote: I know many people are bound to react with "Just express yourself emotionally but in a positive way" or tell me to believe in myself and that I CAN balance it. Well, no I cannot. This is the only way I can do this. I either let it all out or I suppress a lot of my personality in general.
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You know what I notice? I lot of "I can't." You don't give yourself any room for growth. I bet you'd be surprised at what you can do when you try. FYI, this was a much abridged version, and I read the whole of it. Hope this works for you, really.
