The argument from power.

[Angrboda]

If that's where you need to go, then that's where you need to go. Otherwise I don't think you can blame others if they balk at partially formed proofs when the fault is really yours.

You never said it's arbitrary, and I don't believe I accused you of such. Those would be my words, not yours.

And you didn't answer the question. Why is love the foundation? If God is to be valued above all else by definition, then you've simply capitulated the argument, as definitions as such are arbitrary.