Homophobia

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Marrying a couple in a religious ceremony requires that the officiant have a license, which is obtained from the secular government. If people in said religious institution want to call that ceremony "holy", that's their prerogative, but it ain't legal unless sanctioned by the state. When the christ-punchers call it "holy", it is so only within the confines of their religion, thus a sub-set of all marriages. Thus there is no right whatsoever for the religious to try and dictate what two people a marriage is between.