I'll probably say something similar to your boyfriend, since I've been an atheist since I was 7 or so... but I hope you feel better. There are plenty of people on this website who constantly joke around but actually seem to be decent folks who're willing to help others out. (I say 'seem to be' because I've not been here long myself) So I think you'll be fine.
In any case, welcome to the forums. Hope you stick around.

In any case, welcome to the forums. Hope you stick around.
The word bed actually looks like a bed.