This thread was meant as a joke.
Because of how I intently study people and because it is sort of an ongoing game my boyfriend and I play when we watch television.
He'll say, "Oh, that guy's gay."
My response, "You just want him to be."
And vice versa.
But honestly, I do study guys, more than girls obviously, and I do sometimes see a guy on television who just dings my gaydar real hard. I tend to do research online to see if he is gay. When I find out he identifies as straight, has a girlfriend, has a wife, I tend to purposefully and humorously go into cognitive dissonance mode whereby I state to myself, "Oh, he's really gay and he likes dick on the side".
Because of how I intently study people and because it is sort of an ongoing game my boyfriend and I play when we watch television.
He'll say, "Oh, that guy's gay."
My response, "You just want him to be."
And vice versa.
But honestly, I do study guys, more than girls obviously, and I do sometimes see a guy on television who just dings my gaydar real hard. I tend to do research online to see if he is gay. When I find out he identifies as straight, has a girlfriend, has a wife, I tend to purposefully and humorously go into cognitive dissonance mode whereby I state to myself, "Oh, he's really gay and he likes dick on the side".


