(November 25, 2018 at 10:59 pm)wyzas Wrote: Total downer for you. Don't beat yourself up about the "dying at home" wish. In our society today, and at his age, most don't die at home.
I'm confident that you did your best for your dad. Hang in there.
Yeah it's a if-had-known-then thing. We didn't know. We couldn't.
I'm not really beating myself up. In the end it was a less shitty end of life than a lot of people have. I'm grateful his suffering is over.