(December 10, 2018 at 9:57 pm)AFTT47 Wrote:
(December 10, 2018 at 10:21 pm)Amarok Wrote:
I am missing the point. It must be over my head. Public vs. private I get. Governments do discriminate and suppress personal rights, but that's a side bar. Let's just keep it in the private sector. You keep missing an alternate perspective. You said " It's not that you shouldn't be able to things that I don't want to do. It's that you shouldn't be able to do things that harm me." The same reason you don't choose live in the middle of a warzone is the same reason you should choose not to eat where people are allowed to smoke. That's why most people frown upon taking babies into smoky bars. If you agree with A and B that :
A. It's my right to smoke where I want
B. I'm smoking in a public place in a designated area
How do you get to C:
C. You complain to the park managers that smokers are smoking in the smoking area and it's bothering your asthma
I think in today's PC times you want to feel justified in your intolerance. I think the management wants to show tolerance by tolerating your opinion, but I'd tell you to GTFO. Mainly because your opinion and presence isan't any better than the smokers in the smoke pit. I think intolerance of intolerance would be my route.
(December 10, 2018 at 10:33 pm)Gae Bolga Wrote:
eloquent as always. So maybe tolerance shouldn't be stoven (sp?) for. Maybe equity is a better term. Social equity for all instead of Social tolerance and PCism?
(December 11, 2018 at 7:08 am)ReptilianPeon Wrote:We'll just talk about individuals to avoid public, private, government and religious sidetracks. If you asked me to bake a cake that said something I disagreed with, I would simply tell you no, I don't agree with that and won't do it. You'd then ask 100 billion other possible bakers to bake you a cake. The onus is on you to get what you want. Most people want to get what they want regardless of anyone else's freedoms or opinions, which makes you intolerant of their opinion. Then you claim discrimination, then the cycle starts. Well the truth is, it is discrimination and that's OK. We all discriminate every day, all the time. As the baker I should be able to discriminate my customers and my work. This is the paradox of intolerance:
- You can't be intolerant without intolerance
- You can be tolerant until there's intolerance
- It's hard to be tolerant of intolerance so tolerance shouldn't be a goal.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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