Assuming a Gender Identity

[Acrobat]

It’s outside of cisnormality, aspects associated traditionally with one gender over the other, the fact that I share a combination of these aspects among both genders, is why I identify as non-binary.

I also feel more comfortable with woman then men, I enjoy cooking like my female friends do, romantic comedies, fashion, aesthetics, being open about my feelings, being nurturing to my children,  aspects often associsted with traditional female gender roles, while at the same time enjoy being assertive, the roughy rugged look, toughness, aggression, facial hair, etc.. associated with the traditional male identify.

Wow... Don't you sound like an insufferable narcissistic twit...


I guess I must be non-binary as well. I never cared much for sports, or cars, I enjoy cooking so much I do it for a living, I'm most comfortable around women - especially when f*cking, I don't own a couch, or a TV, I don't like beer and I throw away my underpants, when they have holes in them. At the same time - I have facial hair, I look very "roughy", and I'm assertive enough fart loudly, ot to call people out on their bullsh*t.

So, what do I do now? Do I need a new passport? Do I have to update my Tinder profile. Do I get to use whichever bathroom I like? Does that include toilets for the disabled, or do I have to be non-bipedal for that?...

I admit cisgender vs non-binary, are new terms for me, that I’ve only heard of a few years ago. I’ve only recently started contemplating which category I might fall into.

The definition seems to be, a person who doesn’t exclusively share the traditional gender identity markers, of one gender only.

I think I fall under this definition, when contemplating what those particular traditional identity traits are.

But it’s possible I’m not understanding it properly, am misusing the label, if so I’m open to being corrected, if someone can educate me on why I’m wrong, why I should be classified as cisgender as opposed to non-binary.