RE: I Don't Care
April 13, 2019 at 9:37 pm
(This post was last modified: April 13, 2019 at 9:56 pm by bennyboy.)
(April 13, 2019 at 8:55 pm)Thena323 Wrote: Hehe....What a crock of manipulative horseshit. Now you're low-key suggesting that you (or Yon) could be driven kill yourselves if you aren't given free reign to spew your hostile racist/misogynistic fuckshit without being called out as pieces of shit? Lol...sure.
Case in point. Let me ask you-- what's in it for you to talk this way? Is it a way to work out stress by venting? Are you imagining some actual people who did you actual harm and using me as a proxy? What misogynistic thing have I ever said?
I'm supposing that's the case, actually-- you have a lot of legitimate anger that you're bringing in from outside, and I present a good chance for you to express those feelings. If so. . . bring it!
I'd rather to actually get to know about you, and why you have these very strong feelings, though. Can we change gears and talk about it?
(April 13, 2019 at 8:29 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: As said earlier...you aren't the person for interpersonal advice.Unless I'm not considered a member of this community, then I'm perfectly within my rights to discuss how members of the community express themselves. I think a little more restraint would lead to better discussions and have no disadvantage.
Too delicate for strong language? Well, suck it up Buttercup...sometimes that's how people express themselves.
It's one thing to express discontent, or to get mad in the heat of a debate and say "You're being an asshole" or something. It's another thing to use dehumanizing language with the express intent of hurting someone.
(April 13, 2019 at 8:55 pm)Thena323 Wrote: You don't get a free pass to broadbrush, malign, and attack people unchecked because of having "increased suicidal tendencies" and a mommy who mistreated you.
Whom have I broad-brushed, maligned, or attacked? I don't think that ever happened.
And I'm not doing this because I feel I personally am being mistreated, though I'd say your over-the-top displays of aggression in particular border on verbal assault. I think, in general, it would be better if we erred on the side of tolerance rather than vehemence. In this case, I've been deeply interested in Yonadav since I heard that he's trans (I never would have guessed it in a million years!), and I wanted to know how that relates to the positions he takes. But the toxicity has meant that I'm unlikely ever to find out.
