Brian - you watched a 35 year old movie that had a suicide scene and you decided to tell about how it means there should be no military service - 'cause Hitler - or some such shit.
The damn movie was about poor working girls who want to marry a military officer. Everything else was filler. It's actually a sucky movie that you have decided speaks to some higher purpose regarding military service.
As for coming back from war being changed - yep, that happens. Life events change people every day...some a little bit and some a lot.
You thinking I want you to feel bad about washing out is your baggage.
The damn movie was about poor working girls who want to marry a military officer. Everything else was filler. It's actually a sucky movie that you have decided speaks to some higher purpose regarding military service.
As for coming back from war being changed - yep, that happens. Life events change people every day...some a little bit and some a lot.
You thinking I want you to feel bad about washing out is your baggage.