(June 7, 2009 at 8:16 am)Darwinian Wrote: So, a good slap makes women happy.. Did you just get out of the Tardis from the dark ages because that's where your ideology belongs.
It doesn’t make her happy and I didn’t mean it that way but from the observations of human behaviour we know that a show of male physical energy can sometimes bring a woman out of a prolonged bad mood even though this energy may be seemingly directed against her in the form of angry words or a slap (and please do not twist my words my referring to beatings or advocating violence towards women because that’s not the case), provided in this manifestation of energy there is an undercurrent of love and desire for the woman and no real harm is done to the woman.
I recommend you read into the nature of men and women behaviour. You come to know that our feelings, thoughts, emotions and reactions somewhat differ. Once you read into this area hopefully my full explanation of the verse will make sense. As well as, you have to take into account of the marriage principles in Islam from both the husbands and wives perspective.
peace2u