Hey OP - I feel you. I was a believer most of my life and recently told my family (parents, brother) I'm an atheist, and they didn't take it well as they're all strong believers. Our situations aren't exactly the same here - I'm lucky that my partner is an atheist, so I have his full support. But I know it's a tough adjustment for the people you love. My family hasn't disowned me or anything; we're all still on good terms. It's just a little awkward. We're all uncertain about how to act or what to say (and not say). And my folks think God will reveal himself to me and I'll be Christian again so that's sort of a weird vibe. I know all of that will get better with some time, but it's still hard here and now.
All of that to say: you're not alone being a relatively new atheist among religious loved ones. If you guys keep communications open, honest, and loving, I think it's very likely you can make it through together, as long as that's what both of you want.
I read a book that helped me a lot. It's called Mom, Dad, I'm an Atheist by David G McAfee. Would highly recommend.
Best of luck!
All of that to say: you're not alone being a relatively new atheist among religious loved ones. If you guys keep communications open, honest, and loving, I think it's very likely you can make it through together, as long as that's what both of you want.
I read a book that helped me a lot. It's called Mom, Dad, I'm an Atheist by David G McAfee. Would highly recommend.
Best of luck!
