(July 23, 2020 at 7:31 am)Porcupine Wrote:(July 22, 2020 at 8:52 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Of course it’s manipulation - all influencing is manipulation to a greater or lesser extent.
Manipulating somebody is just, like, a negative version of intentionally trying to change somebody's life for the better and succeeding.
Intentionally trying to change somebody's life for the better and succeeding is just, like, a positive version of manipulating somebody.
So, manipulation can be either positive or negative? I agree. But how can there be a negative version of succeeding at changing someone's life for the better?
If I successfully manipulate someone into quitting smoking, for example, how does labelling it 'manipulation' make it a negative?
Boru
‘I can’t be having with this.’ - Esmeralda Weatherwax