It is possible to have a good relationship with a Christian woman, I have had one. My current SO is vaguely spiritual/ex Bhai who doesn't seem bothered at all by my atheism. But sometimes it's impossible. I had a friend who was married when they were both Christians, they were even missionaries together. When he stopped believing Christian claims, she couldn't adjust and they had to get divorced and split custody of their adopted child. He regretted the loss of his marriage, but he said he did not regret his decision to be truthful with her. I agree that easing her into the realization that you're no longer sharing that part of your lives is probably the best way to go about it.
I wonder if the Christians who advocate that a woman not divorce even if her husband is abusive sing the same tune if her husband becomes an atheist?
I wonder if the Christians who advocate that a woman not divorce even if her husband is abusive sing the same tune if her husband becomes an atheist?
I'm not anti-Christian. I'm anti-stupid.
