I mean, I kinda know why. We have the same father, different mothers. His mom's side of his family is super fundy. I get it that he doesn't come out of the closet because he doesn't want to be shunned by the people he loves the most. But he knows me. He knows that I would be the last to judge him or out him.
He is 23 years old, just graduated from interior design school, has nothing but platonic female friends, no male friends, he sounds more like a girl than I do, is obsessed with Lady GaGa, carries a purse, and is extremely effeminate.
So WTF? Do you think he's gay, but doesn't know it? Is he straight and my gaydar is wonky? Or is he a tragic closet case?
I've asked him. He swears he's straight. All his besties back him up on that, but admit they've never seen him with a girl, and he's still a virgin.
Should I give a fuck? He gets really really depressed sometimes, and won't talk about what is bothering him to anyone. I feel like it's all coming from his religious based guilt from being a homosexual, but I don't know if I should press the issue, or leave it alone.
If it was your brother what would you do?
He is 23 years old, just graduated from interior design school, has nothing but platonic female friends, no male friends, he sounds more like a girl than I do, is obsessed with Lady GaGa, carries a purse, and is extremely effeminate.
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So WTF? Do you think he's gay, but doesn't know it? Is he straight and my gaydar is wonky? Or is he a tragic closet case?
I've asked him. He swears he's straight. All his besties back him up on that, but admit they've never seen him with a girl, and he's still a virgin.
Should I give a fuck? He gets really really depressed sometimes, and won't talk about what is bothering him to anyone. I feel like it's all coming from his religious based guilt from being a homosexual, but I don't know if I should press the issue, or leave it alone.
If it was your brother what would you do?
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