I think intent has to be considered to determine if there’s been actual grooming (unless he was checking her for parasites). The man may have been simply trying to talk her out of her knickers and she misread him.
Alternately, if he was extolling the virtues of marrying an Arab sheik, she may have a point.
Boru
Alternately, if he was extolling the virtues of marrying an Arab sheik, she may have a point.
Boru
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