(December 13, 2022 at 8:51 am)Macoleco Wrote:(December 13, 2022 at 8:33 am)arewethereyet Wrote: Simply - If you ask a person if you can do something to them, in this case, kiss them and they decline you have to realize that the question had a yes or no answer as the choices.
On a second date I don't see why someone would feel obligated to answer you barrage of questions regarding where they are going to be for the next couple weeks.
Calm down. It was a second date not a lifetime commitment. If you hear from her, fine, if not, also fine. She has the right to decline further contact or to welcome further contact.
Yes, she is in her right to say no. I am willing to wait. But speaking honestly is also needed, so I we both know what is going on. I was left with the doubt.
She was the one who said she was going back to her family, I did not ask her for how long which is why I do not know.
Yes she has the right to decline or welcome further contact, but I also have the right to know the truth.
I feel your response is blaming this on me a little too much. Expected, since I am the man.
Perhaps she isn't comfortable in telling you her plans for the next couple weeks.
She doesn't owe you anything. It was a second date.
Not blaming anyone. Just pointing out that you are expecting a lot that she obviously isn't willing to give.