Is it my imagination, or is Ahriman making more sense lately?
Macololeco, it's usually bad form to try to nail down the next date on your current date. It's fine once you're in a relationship, but early on, you have the date, enjoy the date, and just say good night if you don't land the kiss. It's supposed to be fun, so you have to be 'in the now'. In a day or two you call to ask her out again, propose a date, and if she says no, tell her you hope you can get together some other time. Try another idea for a date in another couple of days, and if she says no this time, don't call her again, just move on. Maybe she'll call you, maybe she wont'. These things have to develop at their own pace, trying to set plans too early is a turn off.
No one told me these things when I first started dating, and I made similar mistakes.
Macololeco, it's usually bad form to try to nail down the next date on your current date. It's fine once you're in a relationship, but early on, you have the date, enjoy the date, and just say good night if you don't land the kiss. It's supposed to be fun, so you have to be 'in the now'. In a day or two you call to ask her out again, propose a date, and if she says no, tell her you hope you can get together some other time. Try another idea for a date in another couple of days, and if she says no this time, don't call her again, just move on. Maybe she'll call you, maybe she wont'. These things have to develop at their own pace, trying to set plans too early is a turn off.
No one told me these things when I first started dating, and I made similar mistakes.
I'm not anti-Christian. I'm anti-stupid.
