Quote:So it's a passionless marriage?not exactly....I certainly wouldn't say we have absolutely no passion in our relationship whatsoever, but I certainly wouldn't say we have it continually. I'm the sort of girl who needs her space a lot of the time. I'm not the super-cuddly sort either. I can be, but it doesn't happen all the time, and he's the same.
Quote:Divorce him.don't think I haven't considered it, but I want that to be the absolute last resort. I do love him. a lot. he just infuriates me.
Quote:Well don't force your "beliefs" on him and don't let him enforce his, go to church once in a while if it pleases him(you have to learn to concede somewhere), since you already stated that he does it rarely.
I just can't do that. firstly, it's all in sSwiss German which I don't understand, and secondly because it just feel so deeply wrong to me. I'll go to church for things like funerals, weddings [that aren't mine] etc, because I know it's not about me and my beliefs, it's about others, and theirs. so that seems ok to me....but I shouldn't have to go to church to make my husband happy. he should just be happy with me the way I am. he asked me to marry him, and this is what he's got.
Quote:Frankly, I wish that the fruits of my work useful and glorious appearing of the world that the fruits of my labor awaken the mind and unlock the feeling of those who are deprived of light.
Ridiculous to say, outside the sky was nothing.
There is not one world, one earth, one sun, but as many worlds as we see bright sparks on us.
Giordano Bruno
