My Revelation

[Ravenshire]

You are incorrect, by convoluting the concept by comparing the skills earned in being a baseball player with the mindset of identity.

And your mistake is considering identity a mindset. That is a personality trait, essentially conflating some individuals' personality traits with a social category. When it comes to identity, its validity has nothing to do with how one sees oneself. All that matters, from an identity point of view is how other people see each other. You cannot take the social part out of what gender proponents have said for decades are socially constructed categories.

Do you allow others to define you?

I'll bet you don't. Not in any real or meaningful way.