Still debating between cremation or donating whatever is left to one of the body farms.
Dad was cremated as he wished and one or another of us have scattered his ashes in various places...the farm where he grew up, the golf course he loved, and off the coast of the Outer Banks. His final wish is for the rest of his ashes to spread over mom's grave when she dies. That is NOT a loving gesture but a burning FU. I will be happy to be the one to do that.
Dad was cremated as he wished and one or another of us have scattered his ashes in various places...the farm where he grew up, the golf course he loved, and off the coast of the Outer Banks. His final wish is for the rest of his ashes to spread over mom's grave when she dies. That is NOT a loving gesture but a burning FU. I will be happy to be the one to do that.