I'm happy to talk. I started a thread here called 'Black Pill dating advice' which presents many of views on this issue.
I didn't have a mutually attracted sexual/romantic relationship until I was 46.
I was bullied into mental illness for my looks between 11-19, and never really recovered. I've been dealing with the mental health problems caused by that, and the knock-on effects (like a long, sexless, highly toxic marriage), all my life. Loneliness is something I'm highly familiar with.
I'm not an incel (indeed I find the term a total misnomer), and the more hateful and sexist side of online incel culture is very grim indeed. But I have spoken to a fair few incels (and a couple femcels) and Black Pill folk and have a fair degree of understanding, I think, for their viewpoints.
I didn't have a mutually attracted sexual/romantic relationship until I was 46.
I was bullied into mental illness for my looks between 11-19, and never really recovered. I've been dealing with the mental health problems caused by that, and the knock-on effects (like a long, sexless, highly toxic marriage), all my life. Loneliness is something I'm highly familiar with.
I'm not an incel (indeed I find the term a total misnomer), and the more hateful and sexist side of online incel culture is very grim indeed. But I have spoken to a fair few incels (and a couple femcels) and Black Pill folk and have a fair degree of understanding, I think, for their viewpoints.