Inceldom

[Gwaithmir]

I'm an incel in the sense that I'm an atheist and most of the single women in this area are Catholics who aren't interested in relationships with non-believers. I had a very satisfying relationship with an atheist woman during the early 1990's. We separated on friendly terms when she decided to move away on account of her career. By then, I was in my 50's and no longer interested in pursuing another relationship. I've been without a sexual partner since then and it hasn't bothered me.

I guess the not being bothered, not pursuing, and having had a relationship (did you ever receive sexual validation prior to that relationship?) would place you outside of inceldom proper.

All I can say is that my relationships with women were few and far between. I didn't have my first sexual experience with a woman until my early 20's.