Inceldom

[GrandizerII]

I find it odd that your POV is such that someone who has no social issues and has been told repeatedly they are ugly, isn't hindered in dating by their looks but by their belief that their looks are a hindrance.  

That seems to me to be stacking the deck in such a way to simply not even allow for the possibility that looks can be the thing hindering someone's ability to date.  And that seems illegitimate and even cruel to such people.

What makes you believe this?

Observations. Repeated observations. Time and time again. People who aren't conventionally attractive find themselves in a relationship all the time. Good looking people out there in their 30s and 40s who have never been in one.

Am I cruel for refusing to validate this toxic and self-sabotaging POV that you might be so unattractive no one wants you? Then so be it. I'd rather that than say you suck in life and there's no hope for you whatsoever.