(September 10, 2023 at 4:30 pm)zwanzig Wrote: Isn't it doubly frustrating for them though to see others who they consider less attractive than themselves constantly scoring with intimacy and relationships?
What are they really being gaslit about? That it makes people, particularly women, feel unsafe, when a man talks about them and to them as if they owe him sex? That a lot of women will overlook that behavior if the man is attractive to them physically and presents the idea that "nice guys finish last" or "women love bad boys"? And that unattractive men who treat women like people and bond with them as partners will score higher than a neckbeard who might be slightly more attractive but still spouts dangerous rhetoric?
Have you properly thought through the causation? Or are you buying into incel rhetoric or "woe is me; i need a wife who can't divorce me."?
I don't think they've seen, or often seen, people less attractive than themselves in relationships.
All the other things I agree are bad,but I'm talking about people struggling because of looks not because of any sexist or horrible belief. Plenty of people with terrible attitudes and beliefs has success in dating.
