Inceldom

[GrandizerII]

I've rarely experienced people have a hard time with thinking it's something about themselves that makes them bad/unlovable etc.  People seem too readily to accept such.

I admit there is some subtlety in my comment that maybe needs more clarification. But I said that it's indeed easy for people to blame their failures on something attached to them. Because then they can say they didn't really fail, it's just luck of the draw.

But I do find that many people have a really hard time accepting that some people's suffering isn't caused by some moral failing on their part.  It reminds me of how the poor are sometimes blamed for not having enough grit or effort or discipline etc.

I mean, that's one thing and what we're arguing about here is another thing. Sounds like an apple vs. orange thing.